MARRIAGES can be extremely hectic, which is why an expert suggests giving up for a short while and spending time just as a couple..
“The majority of couples don’t do it on their wedding day, but they should,” says Lindsey, owner of the wedding venue, as she tells couples to find a quick moment to let go of their marriage.
Posting on the venue’s TikTok, Lindsey, the owner of Lady Bird Farm in North Carolina, tells happy couples to take a moment to hide from everyone and enjoy the event and the fact that all these people have come together to celebrate the love you share. .
She describes it as “the most important and valuable advice” she can give for your wedding day, adding “if you do this, you won’t regret it”.
Lindsey says: “Once you’re married and you’ve completed all the traditional duties that the wedding day brings like cocktail hour, dinner, toasts, cake cutting, formal dances, dance party “, then you should “abandon your marriage”.
Although she clarifies that she doesn’t mean literally leaving and not coming back, saying, “Once you’re good at your dance party, you and your partner [should] move away from your place of reception where you cannot be found but where your beloved friends and family are in sight.
“I want you two to hold hands and look away at your friends and family and take it all in,” she adds.
“This very moment is going to be so surreal for both of you and I can guarantee this moment will be treasured for many years to come.”
Other TikTok users agreed it creates a very special moment, with one commenting, “We did this! And our photographer took pictures of us. These are the sweetest photos of the night.
Another added: ‘My husband and I went to the church garden and sat and talked. Still remember it clearly in the rush of the day 13 years ago.
One even went a little further than just out of sight: “Me and my husband did this. We looked at each other and said ‘do you want to go get some fast food?’ and I told my mother and I left. My favorite memory.